Ok so....apparently I got worked over again. You'd think I would learn by now......sigh...freak-out mode happens a little too easily these days. My friend says we go to different gyms, and that makes me feel better. :-/

As for the rest of it....I wish there were something I could do to make myself invisible. Since that is impossible, I am forced to concede that there are some things that are beyond the scope of my responsibility or control.